Here's some helpful advice: [b][i][u]DON'T FORGIVE HIM. TEACH HIM NOT TO DO THIS EVER AGAIN.[/u][/i][/b] [spoiler]I know this sounds a bit harsh, but tough love works. And I can sympathize, I got mugged when I was 14 by a 15 year old dickhead. I caught him and pounded his ass into the pavement. then I found out why he did it, but did I forgive him? No. Because he made bad choices and now he deals with the consequences of his actions. Don't mug people unless you're prepared to get the shit kicked out of you.[/spoiler]