Yeah... I've done everything except skolas, and I've been playing since almost the beginning. I just can't be bothered with him, maybe if the rewards for your triumphs were better, but I'm in no rush to kill him over an emblem, I will beat him. But in my own time. As for being allowed to raid with certain people or not. Lol. I don't have anyone friended that thinks/acts like that. So I can't see it being a problem, I wonder though, did you magically just know how to do vault? Or did someone help you through? You need to remember it was only a year ago we were ALL noobs to destiny.