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9/11/2015 3:22:09 PM
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What is it you mean by becoming friends first? Do you mean to meet someone and almost instantly becoming friends?
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Well yes, but I mean to actually find someone who seems friendly first, isn't that hard?
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Isn't that essentially the hardest part? Doesn't it seem so much more difficult to find friends the older you get?
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I don't know, is it? Do you find it hard to make friends the older you get?
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Why don't you tell me, since I've been telling you what I think? I'm only 17, but could I safely say that in Kindergarten you could ask to be friends with someone without them thinking you are weird or want something?
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Well, I think its a little hard to just walk up to someone and ask them to be friends, haven't they got to trust you first?
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In this day and age, do we even ask to be friends, doesn't it just happen?
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Well now I think about it, it just happens, doesn't it? What if I was to trust one of them and they betrayed me though?
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That has happened to me, but I probably should have seen it coming, do you see your friend betraying you, is he prone to that behavior?
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Yes and no, I don't really know if I can trust him anymore, what would you do?
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If there is any question, from my experience, I would say don't trust him, why risk it? I trusted my life time best friend, even when it seemed as though he was changing, and would you believe me if I told you that he would tell people my confidences if they simply asked? My best friend now I wouldn't even think twice about telling, if your friend is like that, then I would say it is safe, is the bond with your friend like that?
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You're right, my friend can't be trusted, but he puts me up to stuff I don't wanna do, how do I stop that? He done things he says he regrets but, I think that's bull, I'm sure it wouldn't be safe to risk my reputation of telling him my secrets, right?
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What kind of stuff are you talking about (you can pm me btw, in case you don't like talking in questions or just want to talk alone)? Depending on what it is, wouldn't that depend on how much you should trust him?
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It's nothing much really, he's just no very trustworthy and can exaggerate a lot, do you have a friend like that? [spoiler]its ok, just takes me time to figure out how to word my questions. My friend is bad, but not terrible bad. [/spoiler]
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Yeah, I have friends like that, they can get annoying can't they? I usually reserve hatred, I think its ugly and shows a lack in character, but my old best friend was poisonous for me, do you think your friend has the ability to corrupt you?
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I'm very easy to trick so my friend could possibly use that advantage to trick me, have you got a flaw your friend may take advantage of?
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I was the same way, he manipulated me and basically kept me from making any friends to where he was my sole connection, and then he'd -blam!- on me when I needed him the most, but I will say he helped me to see when others are manipulating me, since he gave me so much practice, hahaha, how easy is it to trick you? You seem fairly smart, are you too nice?
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Well when people ask me for stuff, I always say yes, too nice? My friend always pulls me around to do their stuff, how do I stop it?
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Well, sounds like you need to learn to say no, get a backbone, right? Not meant to be rude if I sound like it, I was like that once too, but you just have to learn to tell them no, it shouldn't be too much of a problem, what kind of stuff do they ask you to do for them?
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To help out and stay behind to carry stuff, that bad? There's also being tricked into saying yes, so I'll help with something I'm not wanting to help out on, that bad too?
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I'm not really sure how old you are, but it sounds like things that should be pretty simple to say no to, wouldn't you agree? Isn't it good to help out your friends and maybe do things once in a while you don't want to, just not all the time?
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I help out my friends pretty much every single day, and they take advantage of it, wouldn't that annoy you?
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It would, isn't that why I said you just need to learn to say no? It isn't rude to say no, isn't it just politely speaking your mind and letting your friends know that you wish not to do what it is they asked of you? Would you mind giving me a "classic example" of what they make you do so I can better understand your predicament?
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Friend: Hey, can you lend me some money? Me: How much? Friend: 20 Me: Fine. [spoiler]Didn't know how to word it with question marks. [/spoiler]
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Ah, isn't that a classic example of just saying no? Would you believe me if I told you it gets easier after you've done it? [spoiler]Ur fine[/spoiler]
