She smiles. "My story is not one I'm comfortable telling in whole just yet. But I will tell you something about it you could learn from" She gets up and stretches her arms. "The biggest turning point for me so far was a time I thought I only had two options, I hated them both, but I was so convinced I had no better choice for a while. But then, I decided to make my own option rather than picking one that was supplied to me, it wasn't an easy decision and it sure as hell had it's own consequences, but it was a decision I could live with, the decision I've been living on for the past three years"