Destiny is not a solo game and it is not meant to be played solo. Go on the forums, go to LFG, make some friends. There are plenty of us here, myself included who are willing to play with anyone. I can already answer the question for you, it is not going to get more solo friendly. You simply can't enjoy the game by avoiding raids, trials and other endgame activities. It might suck for you, but thats the reality of it.