There's nothing to debate. You've said about 20 times that the tattoo is "stupid" or "dumbass'. Point taken. We get it. You don't like his tattoo. Unfortunately, you don't stop there, you have to continue rationalizing your dislike of the tattoo by tying in in with job interviews, and explaining your tattoo to friends, and that it's permanent (just fill in all the stupid comments people without tattoos make to people with tattoos). If those are considerations are significant to you personally, then I advise that you don't get tattoos. Don't worry about the OP, he's doing just fine. I can assure you, your dislike of his tattoo is totally insignificant to him.