Although it's true that there are elitists who exclude others, the Destiny community is big enough where you can always find people to help you through raids and Poe that won't require a Gally. The thing is people try to get into raid groups quickly with total strangers who only have one goal in mind and that's completion of the Activity as fast as possible. So of course you have a chance at getting kicked because you only have dragons breath or hunger or some other random launcher. There are plenty of clans and players who help people complete raids who have little to no experience whatsoever. For every elitist, there's another committed destiny player who's willing to help others level their characters and give them a shot at exotic weapons and legendary raid gear. Some may disagree, but the help is there. The key is actually taking the time to look for it and not rushing into the first persons post who's hosting a checkpoint or raid team.