And one last thing please enlighten me on why you view crying as a bad thing and I'm not talking about the people that cry about the last word or thorn or the people that are saying too nerf something I'm talking about crying as a basic human emotion you make it sound as if they are a lesser human being then you are because they cry about something they love or just feel sad about losing something that was important to them there is nothing wrong with crying or feeling bad about losing something that was important to you it reminds us that we are human that we are flawed we are not prefect not by a long shot