I have both systems. I prefer the ps4, but I still like the Xbox. I hate the Xbox interface though, the tiles are annoying and I can never find what I want. That's a big part of why I like the PS more. I find the community on PS is a bit more relaxed as well. Both systems have annoying players, but I seem to find less of the angry people who scream and rant. That said, the important thing is more where your friends are and which system has the games you want to play. The systems are pretty comparable so it comes down to which has the exclusives you prefer. I would also say that FPS games tend to be better on Xbox and more RPG style games are better on PS. Part of that is community and part due to what console tends to be lead developer for those games. in the end, if you are happy on Xbox, might as well stick with it. If you think you might prefer some of the PS exclusives, switch. Either way you get a good console.