U should have controlled urself and not had sex. If u absolutely HAD to f*ck that chick, u should've divorced ur wife first. And that would still b a dick move. If u marry someone, u should only divorce them if u don't get along at all. So unless u know 4 certain the person ur going 2 marry is in your opinion, the hottest person on the planet, don't marry them. And if ur married and u see another hot chick, contain yourself and avoid them. Think before u f*ck.