Really. I got a lot of hate when I asked for help, but at least some people were willing to give me a shot... I'm seeing even more of the helpful kind since I started this thread.

I'm not a PvP player by any stretch of the imagination and I'd love to get to the lighthouse, I just don't see it happening for me. Tried it out on Friday night and 8 defeats later, some a lot closer than others and I've decided to try again when I'm 34. I'm glad you were brave enough to ask for help and pleased that you got through it. It's also pretty awesome that they guys who helped you are in here backing you up :) Enjoy that loot :)