[quote]Lol no, but when she probably has over 100 friends she won't care about losing one.[/quote] Then don't say that In my situation, we were really, as in extremely, close. We even talked about people who do have crushes on us and who each other's are. Eventually it would die down as secret (or in my case none). I asked her to prom and she said yes, and we had to ensure everyone we were going as just friends. In Valentine's, I told her I did like her. She said she liked me back but didn't want to get into a relationship to prevent losing me (she had a previous relationship with another friend and it ended horribly, they don't talk anymore, as in ever). I eventually settled to the fact that she just said that to prevent hurting me. I told these to my friends (some of hers too) and they told her. They reported back (didn't tell them to lol) and said she told them she was guilty for making me feel this way and that she really does like me back. Right now, I think I'll wait it out, we still talk everyday. For your case, maybe she's thinking it out. Obviously if you're as close as you said she wouldn't want to lose a friend and you wouldn't want that either right? You can start talking to her again, maybe even ask about the letter you sent but don't push it like you're desperate or anything.