News flash! You're problems aren't unique. In fact tons of people out there have it worse than anyone on this forum. Stop wallowing in self pity and go live your life. Some perspective[spoiler]I used to work with a man from south sudan who was on a worker green card program. I don't know the current situation there anymore, but at the time, North Sudan, which is Muslim, was attacking south Sudan, which is Christian, and literally slaughtering people. He saw his brothers get killed, his dad get killed mercilessly. He has no idea where his mom and sisters are after they got separated at a refugee camp he lead them too. Planes flying over head meant they were getting bombs dropped on them, basically he had no idea if he would live to see the next day. Luckily he got into that work program, and he was saving up money for his family while staying in contact with the U.N. to find his family he got separated from. This man, even after all that tragedy and hardship and legit things to be depressed over, still kept his head high and kept going forward with his life, finding joy and being hopeful for the future. It really gave me a huge reality check that day he told me about his past and and gave me a lot of perspective. So if you're sitting there feeling depressed. Shame on you. [/spoiler]