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Edited by chf4242:
3/17/2015 12:24:05 AM
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Relationship advice
While I hesitate to post this here because of the huge number of 12 year old trolls who have never seen a real girl naked, I ask the more mature and experienced part of the forum for some advice. Me and my girlfriend broke up after a big fight Saturday night after prom, and we haven't really talked since. Since the reason I asked her out in the first place is she was a really cool person and an awesome funny girl who I was good friends with, I don't want to lose a person like that. So basically, I want to try and become friends again like before. I know this is gonna be awkward at first an probably a long process, but she was one of my closest friends and is really like that back. As I said, we haven't talked since it happened. We go to the same school and have classes together, but as I said I haven't talked to her yet and I have no idea if she wants to be friends or what. Any advice as to how I should approach this?
Thanks guys I've heard all I need to I appreciate the help. Don't need any more responses. I've gotten a loud no from her for now, with a maybe farther down the line.
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Edited by Hellbent02: 3/16/2015 6:49:06 PMWell break ups usually do suck so sorry about that happening. You really shouldn't get in a relationship till you are both comfortable showing affection toward each other. When you are in a relationship you shouldn't worry about how to act as a couple. If you two are truly in love with each other it should just come natural and you go with the flow of things. Don't plan things like that. I get some people don't like doing it in public and I had gfs like that which bothered me as well. They say they don't like public affection but to me it seemed they didn't want other guys thinking we was bf and gf so just in case one was checking them out. My brother and his gf show affection to each other when no one is around but doesn't often when people are around them. Some people just can't change regardless that you want them to. Best advice I can give for future dating is to make sure a girl is comfortable with stuff like that. For your current problem, just talk to her and let her know that you still want to remain friends. You can deal with that you two don't work out as a couple but you do work out as friends. If she doesn't want to be friends still then there is really nothing else you can do. Don't give up on making new friends and also finding love. Explore your options also. There is different ways of meeting people. In my 34 years and still pushing, I've been with a total of 5 gfs. I have dated many others as well. I can tell you each and every one of them was a bit different and for me to finally get in a relationship that has lasted longer than a year (we been going out 2 and half now i believe) i had to basically find someone that compliments me in many different ways. Sure my gf is different than me but we have a lot in common and feel the same about relationships and that's the key to finding a good one at least in my experience.
