It's a great post. It's interesting to see the way you perceive thing. As I female, I don't find it annoying if you use bad words as you do with your pals, I think what bothers me is when guys try to hit on me while playing, it's awkward, when someone start either complimenting you just cause you're a gamer female or say things like "wow, you're like the only woman I've played with". I've been lucky to have found good friends online (men or women) to just have fun and enjoy games. Gamers are gamers it doesn't matter whether you're a boy or girl.